Make Masturbating More Fun: Switch Up Your Solo Fun with These Techniques

Masturbation can be more than just a quick release for sexual needs; for some, it becomes a lifestyle. Some people identify as solosexuals—those who prefer self-pleasure over other forms of sexual activity. Masturbation is an activity that allows you to spend time with yourself, making it a great way to discover more about who you are. Self-pleasure can be more versatile than you might think. There are lots of toys, tools, and techniques that can help spice up your bate game.

Masturbating Is More Than Just Jerking Off

Some people might think masturbating is just jerking off and releasing, but it can be much more than that. Masturbating can be eye-opening and a journey of self-discovery when done correctly. It’s true that you can treat masturbation as a quick release and go, but for some men, masturbating is more of a lifestyle.

Some men report that the pleasure from masturbating is not the same as having sex. Though it might sound like the two are interchangeable, they serve different purposes. It's totally normal if you still have the urge to masturbate even after having wild sex. Some men treat masturbation as downtime for themselves. Masturbation doesn’t have to be just a release for sexual needs; it can also be a way to explore mindfulness.

Trying Different Techniques Can Add Variety to Your Bate Game

There are various ways men masturbate. We might think there’s only one way to do it, but not all men masturbate the same way. Trying different techniques can make your bate sessions more pleasurable.

Stroking your penis up and down might make the most sense for a lot of people. However, doing this repeatedly could make your stroke game a bit boring. This applies to touching yourself and stroking someone else. Don’t be afraid to change up how you touch penises! There’s nothing wrong with sticking to the basics, but experimenting with how you touch yourself can help you explore your likes and needs.

Here are 40 God-tier Masturbation Techniques you can try to step up your game. Exploring new movements and hand strokes will help you discover the best pleasurable ways. There’s nothing wrong with exploring your needs and preferences—everyone is different. Your preferences depend on factors like your kinks, sexual preferences, the shape of your penis (whether you’re uncut or circumcised matters!), and your past sexual experiences. Some techniques work better for certain people, while others are suited for specific kinks. Once you find what works best for you, you'll better understand your body, which can improve your overall sexual health. The more you know about yourself, the more pleasure you can experience.

Don’t Focus Only on Your Penis

Exploring your erogenous zones could improve your masturbating experience. Erogenous zones refer to areas that are sensitive to touch. Stimulating these areas can help arouse your body. Not everyone reacts the same to the same kind of touch. Playing around with touches in these areas could make your bate session more intense, leading to a better orgasm.

This not only helps maximize your pleasure but also helps you learn how your body reacts to touches in your comfort zone. Stimulating the erogenous zones is also important for having sex. This means exploring this kind of touch for your and your partner’s body could also improve your sex life. Here are a few areas you can try to stimulate while masturbating:

• Taint (the area between your penis and anus)
• Nipples
• Scrotum
• Prostate

Try Edging

Edging is a technique in which you control your orgasm to prolong your masturbating session. Long edging could lead to an explosive orgasm and stronger ejaculation. This technique is also one of the most versatile for masturbating, as you can mix it up with other techniques to increase intensity. Using edging with toys or other techniques can take your bate sessions to a whole new level.

Edging involves starting and stopping masturbation once you feel like you’re about to orgasm, then starting again when that feeling subsides. Repeating this throughout your session not only prolongs it but can also make the orgasm feel more intense once you decide to release it. Edging can last from 15 minutes to hours, depending on how long you want it to be. We suggest you learn more about edging and its benefits in our deep dive on the subject!

Solo Sex Needs Lube Too!

The use of lube isn’t limited to just sexual intercourse; it can also be used for masturbation! Using lube can add more variety to the sensation of each stroke, especially for those who are circumcised or might not produce a lot of precum. There are usually three types of lube to choose from:

• Water-based lube: The most popular of the three. It can be easily washed off with water and soap but evaporates the fastest, so you have to reapply more often. This is also the most versatile and affordable option, as it’s commonly found and safe to use with condoms.
• Oil-based lube: There aren’t many oil-based lubes made specifically for personal lubricants on the market. Oil-based lubes usually come in the form of other oils, such as coconut oil, baby oil, or vegetable oils. They need less reapplication than water-based lubes but could be more difficult to clean. Do not use this type of lube with condoms, as oil can weaken the material, making it more prone to breakage and causing the condom to break.
• Silicone-based lube: The slickest of the three. Silicone-based lube is like a hybrid between water-based and oil-based lube. It’s safer for the skin than oil-based lube and doesn’t evaporate easily like water-based lube. This type is also suitable for sex, as it works well with condoms. The downside is that it could be a bit more difficult to clean. Silicone-based lubes stick everywhere and require soap or rubbing alcohol to be completely washed off. This type of lube can also ruin the surface of silicone sex toys.

You can experiment with different types of lubes, as not all lubes are created equal. Some are slicker than others. Some people prefer more friction for their strokes. Each type of lube gives a different sensation during masturbation. Find the one that’s right for you in terms of slickness, clean-up, and price.

Incorporate Toys into Your Sessions

There are a lot of adult toys made specifically for masturbation. Toys can add more variety if bare hands are getting too bland for you. Now, there are more varieties of sex toys for masturbation, from small pocket strokers to prostate massagers designed for prostate stimulation. Learn more on the Joys of the P-Shot.

Choose toys that fit your needs and comfort level. Aim for the ones that you think would stimulate your needs the best. Don’t shy away from exploring new sensations. These masturbation toys can help enhance your self-pleasure when you hit the right spot (pun intended) along with your skills in your bate game.

You Don’t Need to Do It Alone

Masturbation doesn’t have to mean doing it solo. You can try masturbating with your partner or a friend. This can be done by jerking off together or jerking each other off. Mutual masturbation can be an exciting activity, as it plays into both voyeur and exhibitionist fantasies. You also don’t have to be gay to enjoy mutual masturbation. Straight men also do mutual masturbation with their friends. The important part is to respect each other’s boundaries. Respect their request if the person you’re doing it with says no to any kind of touch.

Mutual masturbation isn’t only a fantasy to explore. Masturbating together is also a way to communicate and share your experiences with other masturbators (known colloquially as "bators" for short). This helps you explore and learn more from other fellows who also enjoy masturbation. Mutual masturbation is also known for helping with bonding, stress relief, and boosting confidence. Nowadays, there are more ways to try mutual masturbation with another man without meeting in person. Online bating has become more popular in the past decade, whether through chatting, photo sharing, porn sharing, or being on cam together. This allows you to explore this kink freely from the comfort of your home. However, we suggest you consider privacy issues and how to protect your anonymity at your comfort level.

How Much Is Too Much?

There isn’t one correct answer to how much masturbation is too much. People might give different answers based on their views on masturbation. Some people refrain from it entirely, while others use it as a way to wind down after a long day of work. Some even use masturbation to bond with their friends. Our rule of thumb is that if your masturbation habits negatively impact your daily life, you might be masturbating too much. For example, if your need for masturbation causes you to miss a class, skip work, or be late to important appointments, you might need to slow down or seek professional help. If you’re masturbating too much, it could be a sign of anxiety, stress, or depression that needs to be addressed. However, masturbation is not the cause of depression. Self-pleasure is totally normal for all humans and a valid form of sexual release. The important part is to be mindful of how much you’re masturbating.